Questions and answers

A private app for couples: a daily question, games, voice and video calls, shared notes, a memory book, goals and date ideas, all in a space only the two of you share.

Start on your own and explore. Share your SPARK code. When your partner downloads OurSparks and enters it, your spaces link right away.

Yes. You and your partner can use different phones.

Talking, Dating, Committed, Engaged, Married and Rebuilding. Your stage tailors questions, games and ideas. You can change it any time in Couple Profile, and important changes need your partner's OK.

You can get to know up to five people at once. Each one has their own private space, and nobody sees the others. When you and one person move to Dating, the other connections end.

Yes. Daily Sparks follow each of your time zones, and calls, games and Watch Together keep you close.

No. Chat and Notes are end-to-end encrypted. Only your two phones can read them, and OurSparks can't.

Your account, profile, your link with your partner, what you create, and crash and performance reports if you allow them. No background location, no contacts, no ads. The Privacy Policy lists everything.

Only your partner, and only if you both turn on location sharing. It's off by default, and you can turn it off or use Incognito any time.

Other OurSparks users, or a smaller audience you choose. Your partner approves every post first. You can delete posts any time.

No. It's a relationship app, not a mental health or medical service. If you're in crisis or danger, contact a qualified professional or your local emergency number.

Yes, like a normal phone call. Make sure notifications are allowed for OurSparks.

Never. Calls are encrypted and go directly between your phones whenever possible.

$4.99 a month or $29.99 a year in the US, with a 7-day free trial. From the Dating stage on, one subscription covers both of you.

In your App Store or Google Play subscription settings. You keep Premium until the end of the period you paid for.

Yes. You can delete individual memories, messages, notes and answers in the app.

Each of you keeps your own account. Shared content stays readable to both of you for 30 days, then it's removed.

See Delete your account.